So
I was researching about dating and relationship and stumble upon this. Pretty
interesting so I thought I share. All credits go to AllWomenTalk. To learn more visit the website (listed below).
7
Tips to Finding the Right Guy (haha)
1.
Guys
do want relationships
“……mistake girls make when they
go looking for guys is thinking that men don’t want a real relationship. So
they end up settling for flings or one night stands, thinking that’s all they
will ever be able to get. I’m here to disprove that theory! Guys DO want
relationships, and as long as you’re the type of girl who flits around, they
will never respect you enough to settle down. So stop thinking that men don’t
want to be with you for longer than one night, and start holding out for
somebody great! That’s how you find the right guy…”
2.
Mr. Wrong might know Mr. Right
“….One tip to finding the right
guy is to keep his number. Don’t toss it out as soon as it’s “over.” One thing
many girls overlook is that just because one guy doesn’t work out for you, that
doesn’t mean his friends wouldn’t! Mr. Wrong might be friends with Mr. Right!
So keep in touch with your guy friends and hang out periodically to see if they
have any hot men-friends you’d like to get to know a little better!”
3.
Don’t try so hard
“If you want a tip to finding
the right guy, here it is: Stop trying so hard to make it happen. Desperation
often results in settling for whatever comes your way, and that’s never good.
It will happen when it’s time and not before then. You don’t need to throw
yourself on every guy you see without a ring on his hand in order to find the
right guy. Just be patient and wait. Good things DO come to those who wait,
you’ll see!”
4.
There’s nothing wrong with having standards
“….It’s a good idea to have a
“list” of “criteria” you would like a guy to meet. You don’t need to just be
content to have a man who has no job, no interest in ever having a job or trade
of any kind and likes to play XBox all day and party all night. But at
the same time, keep your “list” and “criteria” loose. If you have such high
standards that no guy will ever be able to meet them, you may end up alone
forever! Remember that guys are human just like you and give them some space to
live. Also, don’t pass by a perfectly nice guy with your nose in the air just
because you think you deserve a prince or a king…”
5.
There are plenty of fish in the sea
“One tip to finding the right
guy is to remember there are plenty of fish in the sea. Yes, broken hearts take
time to mend and relationships that end on a bad note can hurt for a good
while. But there ARE other men out there, men who
will treat you right and love you the most. Don’t write off all men in the
world as jerks-there are some pretty cool dudes out there just waiting to be
discovered!”
6.
Be the kind of girl a guy would want
“If you’re really serious about
finding the right man, here’s a big tip to keep in mind: You need to be the
kind of girl a guy would WANT to have. That doesn’t mean you need to be someone
you’re not. But if you constantly have a bad attitude, a sour expression or
critical words, no guy is going to want to be around that. And most guys who
look for lasting relationships aren’t going to want a girl who does nothing but
party all the time and liver her life in less-than-ladylike clothing. Try to be
the type of girl a guy would want as his long-term girlfriend if you’re
serious!”
7.
Look in the right places
“……Finding the right guy takes
time and can sometimes be discouraging or disheartening when you don’t get
results right away…..stay optimistic and never settle for less than what you
deserve! You will be so happy you did when you do finally find the right man….”
